Friday, January 3, 2014

A little piece on my dear friend Amy

Amy Emily Frames Your Love Story
Empowering women to see their individual beauty
By Kerryn McDonough

From a pink Canon Snapshot to a thriving business, Amy Emily’s Cinderella story will inspire you to trust your instincts and value your individuality. Once you see the personality in her stunning photography, you will want to hire her to capture your love story.



A few years ago Amy Emily Kelly was celebrating a close friend’s engagement when she blurted out, “I’d really love to do your engagement photos,” which she remembers was “a really foreign concept.” Her friend stared at her in confusion before saying, “Amy, you don’t do photography.”
She was right. Kelly had no formal training, she did not own the proper equipment, and she had never conducted a photo shoot. Nevertheless, her friend believed she volunteered for a reason and decided to give her a chance. Two weeks later, Kelly made the two-hour trip back to her friend’s house in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania with her pink Canon Snapshot in tow. Despite initial trepidation, she started snapping photos and building confidence. “It was a really great session. We were all kind of surprised by how natural it was,” Kelly recalls. Within four days of posting the photos on Facebook, she had booked her first wedding and eight months later, she was in Germany photographing her first international wedding. Now, Amy EmilyPhotography is based in Boston, but Kelly continues to travel extensively. Her clients adore her ability to capture raw emotion rather than simply photographing beautiful, but static images.
Kelly is not just a photographer, but an instant friend. Her fiery-red hair and hearty laugh complement her enthusiastic personality, which makes her clients feel instantly comfortable. “It was encouraging to see her excitement during the shoot,” says Rebecca Hart, an Amy Emily bride from a year ago, “She made me feel like I was her first priority and put my interests before her own.” Kelly cares about people. She aspires to give women more than just beautiful photos of their weddings, but beautiful photos that capture personality, emotion, and meaning. “She’s a very unique person. She really cares about people and takes the time to build relationships with her clients, which is special and rare,” says client Jessica Kim whose family Kelly has photographed a number of times.
 This dedication to connecting with her clients matches her personable nature. Kelly practices photography because it allows her to understand the value of life. As she stares through the lens of the camera, she confesses, “We have such a short amount of time to live that I want to photograph the beauty I see around me, and everyone’s love story, like it is in this moment- how it looks, as real as it looks.” Her need to show true beauty stems from her concerns about the critical nature of society. She believes that too much time is wasted commenting on others’ flaws and that people miss what makes someone beautiful in his or her own way. Because of society’s beauty standards, many women have complex views of themselves and their bodies.  Kelly wants to give them images that will make them feel confident in their own beauty. With a big grin and wide eyes, she reflects on her career. Kelly believes that the ability to enable women to see the same beauty and confidence in themselves that she sees in them is reward in itself. She would rather provide women with confidence than be awarded fame or recognition.
For Kelly, photography always has been and continues to be about passion, culture, and people, not money. When she founded Amy Emily Photography, she was working full time as the executive assistant to a CEO while studying for her master’s degrees in both philosophy and theology at Baptist Bible College in Pennsylvania. Through her study of philosophy, Kelly explored art and culture, which led to her appreciation of photography. Even though the timing was poor considering her full-time position as an executive assistant and extensive studies for her masters’ degrees, the discovery of her talents and establishment of her business unraveled nicely. “It’s kind of a Cinderella story,” she says.
The only problem was that she did not want anyone to know that she had a thriving business. Because she was uncertain of her talent and shy about her success, she named the company Amy Emily, which she hoped no one would recognize because at the time, everyone knew her by her first and last name, Amy Kelly.
Despite her reservations, Kelly’s determination pushed her to keep photographing. She owes this determination and hard work ethic to her parents, whom she describes as the strongest, hardest working people she knows. “They always had two or three jobs each and constantly helped those in need,” Kelly explains. She was raised in Piscataway, New Jersey where she swam competitively for much of her youth. Her admiration of her parents’ values and the discipline she learned from swimming reflect in her own characteristics. Not only is she driven and hardworking, but generous and caring. Her kind spirit resonates in her business model. She believes that photographing a wedding is about capturing the story of the day, not about providing a client with a certain number of images within a set time frame. “She’s not seeing it as a business,” explains Jessica Kim, “but as a service of her time and her talents.” Because of Kelly’s strong belief in telling the whole story, she tries to take photos of every guest, emphasizing that the candid ones truly capture the spirit of the event.  Rebecca Hart recalls, “She gave me images of moments I didn’t even know I would want.”  
The spirit in her photography parallels her adventurous spirit. She has always had a desire to travel, which is the inspiration behind destination weddings. “Destination doesn’t necessarily mean somewhere far or exotic,” explains Kelly, “It’s just wherever one family travels to spend time together, some place that is not normal for them.” She has photographed weddings in New Hampshire, Germany, West Delaware, and various spots in Florida. Kelly enjoys destination weddings because they are usually smaller, more intimate, and include multiple events over the course of a few days. The time spent with the bride, groom, and their families allows her to establish relationships. She learns about their pasts, which enables her to better capture the personalities and stories of those who attend the wedding.
From her beautiful photos and professional manner to her adventurous spirit and destination weddings, Kelly strives to capture the individual beauty of every client while simultaneously establishing a relationship and making them feel comfortable in front of the camera.
When working with clients, Kelly follows the wise words of Maya Angelou: “People will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

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Sunday, September 29, 2013

Is this real life?

I know, I know. This is long overdue. Remember that final question I asked in my previous post: "I'm crazy right?" The answer is yes. In fact, "yes" doesn't even begin to sum up how insane and overwhelmed I feel all the time. Yet, I'm loving it. Ok fine, most of it.

Major updates first:

The writing center is no more. While I enjoyed helping the youngins feel more comfortable with and confident in the work they were submitting, I feel my efforts and energy are better invested in Directr. As of Monday, I will be full-time student, most-time social media maven (That's right. I am a self-proclaimed expert now... even though I learned a whole bunch of silly statistics in a class the other day that made me think "oh man, gotta change the day we post some things"). I mean, honestly, who knew Tuesday was the day the most amount of people unsubscribed from email lists. DO NOT ever send ANYTHING on a Tuesday. Lesson learned. Thank ya, guest speaker, Dexter.

I moved....again. Long story short - The drama that erupted was stressful and frustrating, but the outcome is amazing. I now have a renovated apartment with wood floors, granite counter tops, stainless steel appliances, a room twice the size of the previous one, a parking spot (in a garage!), and a super sweet roommate, Mari (and her sometimes dog Bella).... all for the same price I was paying for a dinky little room, no parking, and a run-down, smelled-like-dog apartment around the corner. I think that statement, "Good things happen to good people", might actually be true.

And the school snippets for those of you who have already asked or have been itching to connect with me:

School is fantastic. I've been nerding out. As with any graduate program, the work load is reading heavy, but the classes are interesting and enjoyable so the outside work doesn't seem so daunting. Except for research. I can't. It's just so horrible. I thought I could quit Scientific Method in 4th grade. It snuck up on me in 9th and 10th grade too, but I powered through and then I somehow managed to avoid excessive exposure to the dreadful process during my undergraduate career, but here it is- back again. Death via Method of Science. I swear, it's imminent.

Provided I do survive the research class, I'm get to hang out with some pretty cool people. My professors are all insanely impressive both academically and professionally. Yet, I find them to be approachable and almost... human. Have professors always been this way? Why do I remember them being terrifying, intimidating people that were far too virtuous to approach?

Lucky for me, I seem to have overcome this irrational fear of respected scholars. Just last week, my professor called my name to give a mini presentation in class and as I stood, he immediately commented on my flower pants (yes, you all know and love them as much as I do). Without hesitation, I replied, "Yea. They're powerful." Defensive much? Are we allowed to speak to these almighty professors with such candor?  He quickly assuaged my fears with, "Ok Miss Flower Power". Still hoping that one won't come back to haunt me.

And then there's Jodi - I think technically she's Prof. Luber, but I have such a huge lady crush on her that I have taken the liberty of calling her by her first name. Not only is she hilarious and a little bit snarky, but she founded Womens Forum , which is an "online community for women to connect, engage, and discuss." She has an endearing personality, is an engaging professor, and is a successful entrepreneur and mother. Maybe because I was (and forever will be) a Bruin Belle, or maybe it's my inner feminist roaring, or maybe it's just a girl thing, but my admiration for this woman continues to grow. Seriously, she's a rockstar. I'll take her autograph over the biebs any day.

As for other happenings in this so-called life away from work and school that I lead, the most exciting piece of news is that it is almost October, the leaves are beginning to change, cider doughnuts are at Wilson's Farm, and oversized sweaters are socially acceptable for public appearances. Why can't it be October in New England all year?

This upcoming week, I will actually start documenting some of my grad school experiences with instagram pictures and directr movies as I had originally intended for this blog. Sharing galore in the near future. Until then, enjoy my ramblings. 



Monday, September 2, 2013

Finally Here

"You should start a blog"... Five words from countless people over the past four years.

Of course, I always react to this suggestion in the same manner that I handle most things that make me uncomfortable- a big smile, slight nod of the head, and "We'll see...maybe". Yes...uncomfortable. Those five words always caused the same overwhelming thoughts: "But what do I write about? Do I need a theme? Is it strange that an English major doesn't know what or why to write? Should I be concerned that I don't want to write? Who cares what I have to say? I don't even write well. WHAT IS MY FUTURE!?" Total and complete panic over such a short harmless statement- every.single.time.

The last person to hurl the forsaken "You should start a blog" at me, however, received an entirely different response. Instead of my usual polite dismissal to others and inner meltdown of epic proportions, I felt calm (maybe even excited), smiled, and thew back a "You're right. I should." But why this time? Why now? Am I suddenly more confident in my writing? Do I actually have something worth sharing? No idea. I can't answer the "why" just yet (or possibly ever), but as I embark on this new chapter of my life, I'm excited to have this blog to document the oh-so memorable moments, whether unbelievably amazing or unfathomably hellish. SO HELLLLOOO GRAD SCHOOL! A whole new world. A whole new identity.

I will surely be red-eyed from exhaustion, while I type furiously away at my computer and chug my beloved Iced Red Eye, but I'm ready now... to share my thoughts; tell the stories of my day to day adventures; and document the crazy antics of life as a grad student, social media manager, writing tutor, and part-time weekend caterer. I'm crazy, right? Ok, just checking.

Well, here we are...finally. The first post.

Bring on the adventure, Boston! I'm ready for you.